Recent discussions online have questioned the relevance and user base of Feeld, a dating application specializing in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. A tweet from CJ Canton stated, "> The article is based on "data" from Feeld, a small, niche dating app no one has ever heard of that pitches itself for "polyamory and ethical non-monogamy."" However, recent reports indicate significant growth and an expanding presence for the platform.
Feeld, initially launched as 3nder in 2014, has consistently catered to individuals interested in alternative relationship models, including ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, and casual sex. Unlike mainstream dating apps, Feeld allows users to select from over 20 sexualities and gender identities, create paired profiles, and engage in group chats, fostering a space for diverse explorations. This focus has attracted a specific demographic seeking open-minded connections.
Despite the perception of being a small, niche app, Feeld has experienced substantial expansion in recent years. Between 2021 and 2025, its membership grew by an impressive 368 percent, with new user acquisition spiking by nearly 200 percent over the same period, according to data shared with Wired in March 2026. The Guardian reported in June 2025 that the app's user base has grown 30% year-on-year since 2022, at a time when many other dating apps are seeing declining numbers.
The platform actively utilizes data, publishing "State of Dating Reports" in collaboration with institutions like the Kinsey Institute and the University of Michigan, with the first report released in September 2024. Feeld's 2026 "State of Reflections" report further indicated that 71 percent of its members view alternative relationship styles as normal, and 68 percent actively practice kink, highlighting the app's unique user base and their preferences. This growth suggests that while Feeld serves specific interests, its reach and influence are far from insignificant in the evolving landscape of digital dating.
