Lindy West, the acclaimed feminist author, has once again become the subject of widespread online discussion following the release of her new memoir, "Adult Braces: Driving Myself Sane," and a recent profile in Slate magazine. The book delves into West's personal journey, including her navigation of a polyamorous relationship with her husband, Ahamefule J. Oluo, and partner, Roya Amirsoleymani, a topic that has ignited varied "takes" across social media and media outlets.
The memoir explores West's initial reluctance and eventual acceptance of polyamory, stemming from her husband's desire for an open marriage. This candid account has resonated with many readers, while also drawing intense scrutiny regarding the dynamics of the relationship. A recent Slate article, published in March 2026, aimed to provide an in-depth look at West's life and the themes of her new book.
Following the Slate profile, West, Oluo, and Amirsoleymani expressed significant displeasure with the piece. Ahamefule J. Oluo notably sent a strongly worded email to the author, Scaachi Koul, accusing her of intentionally skewing the story and dehumanizing him. He stated, > "You intentionally skewed this story to fit your own bitter narrative, you wasted my time and all of our time to write an article that was gonna be the same no matter what we said." Amirsoleymani also commented, > "If I’m honest, it just feels like a Slate article. Which no one I know actually reads."
This public reaction has fueled further commentary, with many online observers criticizing Oluo's response as "unhinged" and self-centered. Critics and fans alike have weighed in on the perceived power imbalances within the polyamorous arrangement described in the memoir, with some expressing sympathy for West. The ongoing discourse highlights the complexities of public figures sharing intimate details of their lives and the subsequent interpretations by media and audiences.
