Competition is not new, but modern life can make it feel constant: Researcher Jose Yong

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It's 1 AM.

You open Instagram just for a second.

Suddenly everyone's engaged, promoted, in Bali, or launching a startup.

And you? You're horizontal, questioning every life choice you've ever made. ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

Turns out โ€” that spiral isn't a personality flaw.

It might be a software bug in the human brain.


๐Ÿง  Your brain is running on ancient code

A new study in Behavioral Sciences by researcher Jose Yong and team has a wild framing for the modern mental health crisis.

They call it an evolutionary mismatch.

For most of human history, we lived in tribes of a few dozen to a few hundred people.

Everyone knew everyone. Status was local. Comparison was small.

Then came cities. Then screens. Then algorithmic feeds serving up strangers' highlight reels by the thousand, every single day.

Same brain. Wildly different world.


โšก Why comparison feels like a full-time job

Dr. Yong puts it simply:

"Competition is not new, but modern life can make it feel constant."

Your ancient status radar was built to track maybe 150 familiar faces.

Now it's pinging off:

  • ๐Ÿ“ฑ Strangers on TikTok flexing morning routines
  • ๐Ÿ’ผ LinkedIn humble-brags every 4 seconds
  • ๐Ÿ’ School friends' engagement carousels
  • ๐Ÿ๏ธ Someone's third Bali trip this year
  • ๐Ÿ’ธ Rising rent reminding you you're behind

Your brain doesn't know these people are strangers.

It just knows: they're winning, you're not.


๐Ÿ“‰ The receipts are brutal

This isn't just theory. The data is loud.

A University of Pennsylvania study asked 143 students to cap Facebook, Insta and Snapchat at 30 minutes a day.

Three weeks later? Significantly less loneliness. Less depression.

And Pew Research's 2024 teen survey is even more telling:

  • Teens who say social media supports them dropped from 67% โ†’ 52%
  • 34% of teen girls say these apps make them feel worse about their lives (vs 20% of boys)
  • 48% now say social media is mostly bad for people their age โ€” up from 32% just two years earlier

If teens are drowning, imagine millennials juggling rent, EMIs and career FOMO on the same feed. ๐Ÿซ 


๐ŸŒฑ The fix isn't willpower

Here's the part that hits different.

The researchers say logging off harder isn't the answer.

The fix is design โ€” of cities, workplaces, and apps that stop weaponising our ancient instincts.

Greener neighbourhoods. Stronger community ties. Feeds built to connect, not to rank.

As Dr. Yong puts it: "We need to design interventions that work with rather than against our evolved human nature."


๐ŸŽฏ The takeaway

Next time comparison hits you at 1 AM, remember this.

Your brain isn't broken.

It's a stone-age operating system trying to run a 2026 app store.

And the glitch you're feelingโ€ฆ is just being human, in a world humans never designed.

That's all for now!